Last weekend my husband and I went out. At one point I was walking behind him in a pub and he turned round to check I was still okay and behind him, he wasn’t looking for what I look like now and completely missed me!
When he finally saw me he smiled and said there you are, I recognised you from the connection I was looking for the old you!
What I’m trying to say is that yes your bodies change, but if you have the right support your relationships don’t have too and feelings always stay.
I see so many negative posts about relationships following surgery, but if you love each other, you have that connection, then what you weigh never actually comes into the equation.
So don’t have this surgery for anyone else but you and certainly don’t panic about relationships afterwards. If you support each other and build each other up, the rest will work out just fine.
Stop Walking on Egg Shells 