Absence

Always absent A message every now and then That was the role this parent had Shirking responsibility But demanding updates On the child ignored for over a decade Now she needs you You can’t be found Hiding, not replying gone underground She doesn’t need you Now she will see A person like you is not

Common Side Effects from RNY Gastric Bypass Surgery.

1. Dumping, when you eat something containing too much sugar and this causes, stomach pains, headaches, dizziness and mouth watering with nausea. 2. New food intolerances, likely to milk. Causing an upset stomach. 3. Inability to tolerate certain foods, personally mine is non ground meat, with an exception of chicken and sauces from Chinese foods

Chat Bot AI advice

I asked a AI Chat Bot for advice and how to stop feeling sad after a break up. The advice was really good! Here is what Arin the Chat Bot had to say. I’m sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. It’s completely understandable to feel sad after a breakup, and

Do you feel like ‘friends’ are sabotaging your relationship?

They probably are. I get this sneaky suspicion that some ‘friends’ don’t want to see my husband and I back together. They are actively telling tales on him, things I already know. The thing is I know that if we are over for good, those friends won’t stay in contact with me. They are like

Calming

I was just watching Tess Daly do an interview about her new book. During the interview she discussed breathing techniques, breathing in for 4 and out for 6 etc. this helps calm her when she is trying to sleep and can’t switch off. Now even that doesn’t work for me. But I use the one

WLS Regrets

Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy with my results but, and this is the big one, I still have regrets, I didn’t know I’d have to take the stomach enzymes with everything I eat for life, due to complications this is me now having to swallow tablets as I eat with everything even snacks, I

Stop Listening To Course Advice from Parents

What advice would you give to your teenage self? I feel the biggest mistake I made as a teenager was being led in my career and courses by my parents. I wanted to join the army, I really wish I had. I also wanted to study French, Art and Art History and go to university

Personal Problems here

Times, personally are difficult right now for our family. *Update The eye hospital wasn’t too concerned and regular monitoring is now scheduled, they were more worried about my husband potentially having diabetes and high blood pressure so they are now being checked. One big relief and weight gone! He is now at home resting as

Sneezing after gastric surgery….. ouch!

Oh no one warned me. I wish I knew. That’s sneezing would be so burning painful after surgery too. It started with a sniffle, grew to full on sneeze. The pain shot through my abdomen and had me on my knees. Weeks later it’s still burning. It really hurts to move. Six to eight weeks

Painful Happy Memories

It dampens my days when happy memories come up, when I know I’m no longer part of future happy memories with that special person/s. Broken families are terrible but some just can’t be fixed. It’s not just a personality clash, it’s removing yourself from toxic and violent situations which result in you no longer being